Blog - Choosing the Right Respite Care Provider
Dealing with someone with adult disabilities, whether it be a parent, sibling or other family member, can sometimes mean choosing a respite care provider. Not a decision to make lightly, finding the right care provider is a process that requires a lot of research and focus. The end result is short-term breaks for you and other guardians taking care of the person, which means less stress, more energy and a more balanced existence for you.
The first step in choosing a respite care provider is analyzing what you, individual receiving the care, and other family members who provide care need. Do you need more time off? Help with transportation? Think about your daily regimen and make a list of what you need help with most. Understanding what the family member needs most in terms of respite care is also essential, such as a companion for social activities, assistance with walking, eating, medication, and exercise, or mental stimulation.
Types of Respite Care
Understanding the types of respite care available is also important when choosing the right provider. Types are care are broken down into in-home and out-of-home categories. In-home care includes volunteer and paid companionship, healthcare assistance, informal family support and relief, and online caregiver communities. Out-of-home care for adult disabilities include caregiver support groups and adult daycare. Think about which type of care best suits your family after analyzing your and your loved one's needs. For example, if going with in-home care, the family member will get to remain in recognizable surroundings, and you can be there while the person is still getting to know the care provider. Conversely, choosing an off-site respite location can provide your loved one with new surroundings to experience for the time being which may be what he or she needs as well.
The Interview Process
Once you've determined what you require from a respite care provider, it's time to actually choose one. Perform phone interviews first before meeting with potential care providers in person. Ask the person or select few to furnish references, and check all of them. Do a criminal background check as well. After you've narrowed your choices down, think about cost and come up with a financial plan that works for everyone involved. Finally, it's important to draw up a contract that provides specific details about how often the care provider is expected to work, duties they need to perform on a weekly or daily basis,
days off, and so on.
A Few Final Tips
Remember there's no set guidelines for choosing the right respite care provider, what's important is that you come up with a system that works for you, other family caregivers, and the family member with adult disabilities. Think about how you want to spend your time off, and consider how other family members feel about the situation. If you're leaving the disabled family member in the care of another without your supervision, think critically about how you feel about it. You have to trust the person you're leaving in care of your loved one in order for the arrangement to be a success. A harmonious relationship among everyone involved will help you get the time off you need, meaning you will not harbor guilt or resentment towards the disabled family member you love so much.
Summer Games Draws Hundreds
Kane County Chronicle
Marklund's Summer Games event draws hundreds
Created: Saturday, June 8, 2013 3:45 p.m. CDT
GENEVA –Monday, June 10, 2013|-- Gary and Carol Franz said the annual Marklund Summer Games has become a special day for their son, Gary Paul Franz Jr., who is a resident at Marklund.
The West Chicago family, which also includes Gary Paul's sister, Kaitlyn, has been attending the Summer Games for the last three years. Saturday's Summer Games were no exception. The day included sports activities such as baseball, bowling, basketball and races at Marklund, which is a home for people with serious and profound developmental disabilities and special health care needs.
"It's fantastic," Carol Franz said. "It's just done with such excellence and enthusiasm."
This year's Summer Games also included visit from former Chicago White Sox third baseman, Bill Melton, and the White Sox mascot, Southpaw.
The Miracle League ball field on Marklund's Geneva campus was funded a decade ago by White Sox Charities Foundation, which was tied into Marklund's 10-year anniversary since opening its Geneva campus. Melton threw out the first pitch of the Summer Games baseball game Saturday.
Gil Fonger, president and CEO of Marklund, said the Summer Games are Marklund's version of the Special Olympics because many residents don't function high enough to participate in Special Olympics.
He said 140 volunteers from Christ Community Church campuses throughout the area helped with the summer games, along with a slew of parents and other volunteers, and 96 residents participated.
"Our vision is to make everyday life possible for individuals with profound disabilities," Fonger said. "Sports are just part of everyday life."
Vicki Beckmann of Genoa, a member of Christ Community Church in St. Charles, said Saturday was the first time she had volunteered for the Summer Games. She spent Saturday morning accompanying a Marklund resident to various sports activities, including a bean-bag toss game.
She said her church encourages its members to do volunteer work on the second Saturday of every month.
"This a super second Saturday," she said.
Beckmann said she decided to volunteer because that's what Christ does.
"It's kind of a mandate of Christ followers to live like he lived and show God's love to more people and hopefully lead more people to Christ," she said.
Season of Giving
Thursday, December 27, 2012|
Serving the Tri-Cities and Kaneland
Volunteers share a Christmas Eve tradition with Marklund residents
Created: Tuesday, December 25, 2012 5:30 a.m. CST
Updated: Tuesday, December 25, 2012 11:29 a.m. CST
Jeanette A. smiles with Santa Claus at Marklund at Mill Creek in Geneva. Clients of Marklund opened presents with family and volunteers on the morning of Christmas Eve. (Rena Naltsas – For the Kane County Chronicle)
Marklund Celebrates Christmas
More than 200 volunteers helped residents at Marklund – a center in Geneva for adults and children with developmental disabilities – open gifts on Christmas Eve.
GENEVA – For the last 11 years, Colleen McCauley has spent the morning of Christmas Eve at Marklund in Geneva, helping residents open gifts donated by area churches, individuals and businesses.
It was a tradition that started shortly after McCauley’s daughter died from brain cancer in 2001. She had donated a custom wheelchair and walker to Marklund, a center for disabled children and adults, and one resident there suggested that she choose a name from the facility’s gift tree.
She took that resident’s advice and now returns to Marklund year after year on Christmas Eve.
This year, she and about 20 coworkers from Screws Industries in Glendale Heights bought presents for 80 Marklund residents. They also purchased gifts for staff members.
“To us, it’s Christmas,” she said. “Seeing the kids appreciate it more than anything – that’s the meaning of Christmas, just to give.”
Cathy Nikrandt, volunteer coordinator at Marklund, said 215 volunteers were expected to help 96 residents open gifts this year. She said volunteers have been dedicating part of their Christmas Eve to assist residents with opening gifts since Marklund opened more than 50 years ago.
This year, Boy Scout Troop 43, the Rotary Club of Batavia and a Wheaton Warrenville South High School leadership group were among the organizations whose members helped out Monday.
Members of the Simmons family in Elburn said this was the first year they volunteered, adding they hoped to make it a Christmas Eve tradition. Robert and Jennifer Simmons brought along their children, Sam, 11, and Rob, 14. Jennifer Simmons said her family has been involved in volunteering at Marklund in the past, and she wanted her family to gain a new perspective.
“Christmas is kind of chaotic,” she said. “We figured serving would put our minds back to where they ought to be.”
Though it was the first time Rob Simmons has been involved in gift-opening at Marklund, he said he had an idea of how much it meant to the residents. He said he donated a book to a resident two years ago, and that resident still remembers him and the gift to this day.
“It really means a lot to know that someone cares about them,” Rob Simmons said.
Marklund spokeswoman Dawn Lassiter-Brueske said the volunteer efforts of those who helped out Monday furthered Marklund’s mission to make everyday life possible for individuals with profound disabilities.
“Even if five people are helping one person, you are helping them feel like part of a loving unit,” she said before volunteers headed to the residents’ rooms.
Many Marklund residents gathered in a common area to open gifts together. Sharon Huisman of Ingleside helped her son, Richard, open gifts with other residents. She has spent Christmas Eve at Marklund for the last three years, and she said donors have always been very generous.
“It’s great to see the outpouring of love people have,” she said. “I couldn’t express how grateful I am for the volunteers’ time and their outpouring of love.”
Almost 40 volunteers from the J. Kyle Braid Foundation leadership program at Wheaton Warrenville South High School helped Monday. Dan Vitale of Wheaton graduated last year but decided to return again as a volunteer this year. He said the leadership group does a lot of volunteer work, but Marklund has become the group’s favorite because he said it feels like a tight-knit family.
“It just shows that people outside of this place care about [the residents],” he said. “We want to support them in any way possible.”
Marklund Government Relations Director Appointed to State Advisory Board
October 19, 2012 (Geneva, IL) Lois Sheaffer Kramer, director of government relations and community support for Marklund, an organization that serves persons with developmental disabilities, has been appointed to the Illinois State DD Facility Advisory Board. This five-member board will serve in an advisory capacity representing those with intellectual and developmental disabilities (ID and DD) to ensure compliance with the ID/DD Community Care Act.
“It is an honor to be appointed to serve as a member of the DD Facility Advisory Board,” Sheaffer Kramer said. “I am looking forward to working more closely with our state leaders to promote the quality of life that people with intellectual disabilities deserve as they strive to reach their highest potential in all areas of their lives.
"We are very excited about Lois' well-deserved appointment,” said Gil Fonger, president and CEO at Marklund. “She is a passionate advocate for individuals with developmental disabilities and will serve very well in this new position. We are also appreciative of the recognition that Marklund is also receiving through this appointment as a leading advocate in the state for individuals with developmental disabilities."
Sheaffer Kramer has served children and adults with DD for 28 years at Marklund, starting her tenure as a recreation therapist and eventually transitioning to director of children’s services before taking on her current role. As director of government relations and community support, she has served on various workgroups as an advocate to discuss legislative changes that impact people with ID/DDs, as well as leads the Illinois Skilled Pediatric group which includes 13 facilities throughout the state. She is also an active member of the Center for Developmental Disabilities Advocacy and Community Supports.
“I take this responsibility very seriously as I realize that I will be representing folks that I have known and served over the past 30 years that are not able to speak for themselves,” she added.